Facing our Fears
Kelly Rae Roberts wrote:
‘In my moodiness and quietness the last few days, I’ve had some weird feelings of fear, fear of being “found out.” It’s a strange and vague sense that I’ve fooled everyone into thinking that I’m thoughtful, talented and worthy of success, when on the inside it feels more like inadequacy. My film-maker friend Kat calls it the “impostor syndrome”–when you’re worried that others are realizing that you’re not so talented or smart after all, and that you just fooled them all into thinking so.’
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Jul 23, 2009 - 10:07:41I totally relate to this! I am so fearful that I am not a good artist, if I am an artist at all! I sit back and do not try and apply myself. What if’s take me over. What if- I really am not talented, what if I really can teach, what if not one likes my art? I know I need to step up to the plate and not be fearful! Face the fears!!!!
I get that feeling, especially around work …. I need to work to make money so we can live ….
about art and my therapy … stamping and card making … hey, this is supposed to be fun, Something we do because we like to, right? Does it really matter what others think? As long as we are enjoying ourselves . that is what should matter – focus on why you are doing it and forget what others think
take care hun,
Sandra
I feel like this every day of my life. Almost like I am not worthy! I feel like I am a fraud when people compliment my art. After 7 years of publishing, you would think that I would be over it — but I think MOST women feel this way.
I try to channel it into positive action — to strive to be better all the time.
This is me all the time. I get lots of great feedback, but I just don’t see it. I see simple, bland, boring and just plain old yuck.
I’m in a Blog Hop right now and people are leaving nice comments, but I just fell like it’s not me they are commenting about. It can’t possibly be my work that they like, they are just being nice cause there is a prize involved. I feel this way when my LSS owner praises me. I feel like an impostor, a fake and fraud. I did the work. I don’t take credit of designing something that I got instructions from another site.
http://anyoneseenmycraftknife.blogspot.com is my blog if you want to check it out…
I know what you mean. I am having the same feelings. I have the added feeling right now that crafting is not important. I know deep down that sending cards is doing something. I am just struggling with a lot of other stuff and that seems to reflect in my crafting. Thanks for sharing this. It is comforting to know that I am not alone.
Oh my, I ‘ve never put words to those feelings, but I have felt the same thing. God gave me the gift of leadership, and I didn’t see it or want it. When I taught a Bible study, craft class, cooking class or a group of preschool teachers, I felt like, “Why are they listening to me? Why are they taking notes?” Then I started to really enjoy being noticed as someone special, but I was fearful that people would find out that I yell at my kids, or leave dirty dishes on the kitchen counter all night. Through the years, God has helped me understand that He blessed me with something I could share with others to bring them joy, or to just bring them together. Now, I just give Him the glory for allowing me to share in His blessings. You’re not alone in your insecurities.
I gasped when I read the piece Beth! Someone, out there, thinks the same thoughts as I do! The difference is, that person put her feelings into words in a way I could never do.
I thought it was just ME!
And then to read the responses and find more people share the same thoughts….wow.
I’ve always felt as if I’m on the outside looking in. I still do, but I now have company!
I might try knocking on the door now…….
Hugs
Viv xx